OXLO – Oslo Extra Large

by byanika on 31/07/2011 · 35 comments

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Hi Sweethearts.

Look at these two kids.

Two beautiful Norwegian children, similar to each other, different from each other, starting out their lives, together.

This is what was attacked when terrror struck in Oslo and our city was bombed and our youth were slaughtered.

This is what we all stood up to defend and to refuse to give up on, with roses, with community, with deep grief, with forceful conviction.   

My city`s gaping wounds are covered in roses. Our bleeding hearts are soothed by the flowers and candles greeting us everywhere we go. We are hugging strangers. We are at a defining moment, the moment where we choose who we are as a nation.

We will not live in fear. We will not be defined by fear.

We are standing up for our multi cultural soceity by holding hands, joining forces, daring to debate, owning the imperfections of our soceity, checking our own hearts for prejudice. No fear, no blaming, no naivitè.

I go to work every day to do my part in helping our pupils know and own their part in our soceity. That is why I have trained to be a councelor, that is why I work in the part of Oslo that I do. I am passionate about my work, passionate about my kids.

We are all Norwegians, just different versions. There is room for all of us. Oslo needs us all.

We are OXLO.


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1 RocquelleNo Gravatar
July 31, 2011 at 2:44 pm

The strength and unity that Oslo has shown in the midst of terror and grief is simply beautiful! The strength I see when watching the news or browsing the web or hear in your words is inspiring. The children you work with (and Oslo as a whole) are so blessed to have you in their lives. Thank you for being an amazing counselor and advocate for one Oslo, one Norway, without any division.

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2 kerryNo Gravatar July 31, 2011 at 2:50 pm

my heart goes out to you, your country and all the people of oslo, this crime is not right on any level.
take care, keep doing what you are doing and stay strong


3 Patti @ NotDeadYet StyleNo Gravatar July 31, 2011 at 5:00 pm

What a beautiful post, Anika. You are doing heaven’s work. My thoughts are with you and your wonderful country.
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4 AquíNo Gravatar July 31, 2011 at 9:28 pm

A heavy heart for the people of Oslo! This is a wonderful post and an example of the tremendous strength and unity that the country has demonstrated. Amazing words Anika! I’m tweeting this :)
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5 WendyBNo Gravatar July 31, 2011 at 10:21 pm

I heart Oslo.
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6 KristinNo Gravatar
July 31, 2011 at 11:17 pm

Praying for those little souls, for you and all your brave countrymen!!


7 CateNo Gravatar
August 1, 2011 at 12:32 am

beautiful. sending prayers.
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8 OfeliaNo Gravatar August 1, 2011 at 12:43 am

You and people like you with your inner strength, courage and willingness to accept others despite of hate talk and division beliefs will take Oslo back to its unity roots and its multicultural acceptance.
I’m glad that you are back blogging and as always I send you my love and support.
Mil Besos,
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9 TerriNo Gravatar August 1, 2011 at 3:17 am

I pray that Norway can weather this…better than the US did.
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10 ag.No Gravatar
August 1, 2011 at 8:38 am

I cannot even begin to imagine the devastion. My heart goes out to you and all those touched by it in Norway and beyond. Stay passionate and stay strong, the world needs more love like the love you speak of.
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11 MyFavouriteThingsNo Gravatar August 1, 2011 at 9:37 am

Hei Anika, ord blir fattige i sånne situasjoner, men jeg er glad for at du er like hel, for å si det sånn. Har mange venner og en god del familie i Oslo, og var veldig lettet da vi endelig hadde fått bekreftet at alle var OK. Det er sikkert ganske rart å bo i Oslo nå, men alt samholdet og støtten er fantastisk, og jeg håper at de som mistet noen, finner litt trøst i det. Stor klem til deg!
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12 Judy CarpenterNo Gravatar August 1, 2011 at 1:18 pm

My dear Anika. It is very sad that one person’s insanity can so damage a country. I do believe that we are part of a Human race and that’s fine with me. All love to you and to those you encounter in this terrible time.


13 MJNo Gravatar
August 1, 2011 at 4:45 pm

You are in my prayers love. I can so relate with what you’re going through over there. When September 11 happened, my country was never the same. Stay strong and it’s amazing how people can put aside their differences and come together during tragedies like this.
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14 For Those About To ShopNo Gravatar August 1, 2011 at 5:59 pm

Thank you for this post, Anika. It’s nice to hear the news from a personal standpoint. I don’t watch news because it upsets me and I don’t like to dwell on things I cannot control. So, I only know of the attack from yours and our other blogger friends’ twitter feeds. I did not know it was race-related. We are all the same in God’s eyes. My hope is that one day everyone will see that.
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15 Gracey at Fashion For GiantsNo Gravatar August 2, 2011 at 2:07 am

Oh, Anika. You, and Oslo, are amazing.
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16 Kirstin MarieNo Gravatar
August 2, 2011 at 7:27 pm

My darling, your strength in writing this post, and all of the people in Oslo, is just incredible. My heart goes to everyone who is experiencing such a horrible, unthinkable devastation. It’s not just Oslo that needs all of you, it’s the whole world.
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17 JamillahNo Gravatar
August 3, 2011 at 5:16 am

Friend, I am crying. As you know I’m in NY and remember every detail of the day of 9/11 and the days after, so when I read about the happening in Norway my heart broke.

Norwegians are a beautiful people and you are one lady that makes them more beautiful. I have complete faith in people and their goodness as a whole and I know that this really devastating heartache will make you only stronger and would never ruin this gem of a place.

LOVE YOU MY FRIEND. You let me know if you need anything. I’m sending you so many hugs from NY.
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18 jessicaNo Gravatar August 4, 2011 at 1:27 am

Beautifully said.My love, thoughts and prayers to everyone in Norway. Its people like you that will help rebuild.
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19 YvonnaLiviannaNo Gravatar
August 4, 2011 at 1:42 am

Beautiful Anika! I send so much love to everyone in Norway, you are such a strong person and definitely keep your head high. Kids need support just like everyone else and I am glad you are their to stand up for them!

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20 SutekiNo Gravatar August 4, 2011 at 4:47 am

Take care.Pray to everyone in Norway.Love all of your so much
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August 4, 2011 at 8:30 am

This is wonderful. Love you babe. Stay strong.
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22 vanessaNo Gravatar
August 5, 2011 at 3:25 am

I am so sorry about the tragic events. I am glad you and your country is fighting for your freedom from fear.
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August 5, 2011 at 7:54 am

Anika, I love that you show how diverse one can be not judged by simply their exterior, goes to show how beautiful we all are any way that we come. Great to see you strong and proud of your country.
Sending blessings, love you… talk soon my friend! -xxoo
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24 KarenNo Gravatar
August 5, 2011 at 11:13 pm

I was so shocked when I heard what was going on in Norway and I thought of you right away. I can only imagine what you and your country are going through right now. I am glad to see you addressing this horrendous attack. We all need to use our voices to educate and eradicate ignorance. I nominated you for a blog award. You can come to my blog to see the details if you like. Thank you for being so brave and for always speaking out for what you believe in.
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25 Best Of Palm BeachNo Gravatar
August 8, 2011 at 4:57 am

I love your strength and fearlessness Anika!!!

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26 Robin GillNo Gravatar August 8, 2011 at 7:18 am

My heart goes up with people in Oxlo especially the kids who have suffered and was killed… I am praying for your country to overcome the effect of the unfaithful bombing.
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27 UN-stitchedNo Gravatar
August 11, 2011 at 4:24 am

Anika, I’m teary eyed reading your words. I’m thinking of you and Oslo, dear friend.
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28 conniNo Gravatar August 11, 2011 at 10:03 pm

Great blog!
I have started my blog, http://www.thexllady.nl
I hope you’l visit me one day, you’r welcome!
Love Conni


29 Ashe//Dramatis PersonaeNo Gravatar
August 12, 2011 at 12:59 am

Ahh! I love you. I love this. I can’t tell you how often the Beau & I have been talking about Norway, how inspiring you all have been through such tragedy, and the amazing strength coming from your country.
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30 FashnlvrNo Gravatar
August 12, 2011 at 4:04 am

I have no words to express how your post makes me feel. Just imagine a huge virtual hug for the entire country of Norway. My heart swells when I read about everyone pulling together. Love to you all!
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31 AnikaNo Gravatar
August 12, 2011 at 8:52 am

Thank you all so much for your kind words and thoughts for Norway and for me. I truly feel grateful for all of your friendship. Love, Anika
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32 HannahNo Gravatar August 15, 2011 at 3:57 pm

You are truly very brave Anika. It is admirable that you are giving inspiration to a lot of children who had undergone traumatic experience. It is so hard living in fear, hope you keep on providing them the courage to rise above.
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33 VanessaNo Gravatar August 17, 2011 at 9:20 am

What a beautiful and very meaningful post Anika. The tragic that happened to Oslo is really sad and disturbing. My love, thoughts and prayers goes to you, and your country and all the people of Oslo especially to the innocent kids who have suffered, hurt and was killed because of this unfortunate incident.
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34 Maria( Ibiza )No Gravatar August 28, 2011 at 3:45 pm

Hello from IBIZA – SPAIN ! My condolence and Oslo and their people are fantastic. I have many friends from there. Its very sad.
Hope the best 1
I hope to be there in December.
Have a nice day !

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