Femme Fatale.

by byanika on 05/12/2011 · 23 comments

in By Anika,self worth

Hi Sweethearts!

I call you sweethearts. My name means sweet face. We are sweet creatures.

Nurturing. Loving. Delicate. Lovely.

We know what is expected of us. We take on so many roles, some glady, others not so much. Always giving. Always happy to be generous, from the heart. Mostly.

Then there is this.

The  what can you do for me? The you think you can handle me? The yes, this time I`ll put my self first for a moment. Unapologetic. Raunchy. Direct. In control. Intens. Yes.

Not always pretty. Not always selfless. But also me. Also us.

I give thanks to every woman who came before me, on whose shoulders I stand as a woman today. I am free to be who I am. Vixen. Cutie pie. Business woman. Home maker. Fiercly independent. In need of a tender embrace. Full of life.

I am woman. Femme. Fatale that!

Tell me my friends, how do you embrace all the different parts of you?


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1 The Girlie BloggerNo Gravatar December 5, 2011 at 7:05 pm
2 Bella QNo Gravatar
December 5, 2011 at 7:52 pm

I love how you embrace ALL aspects of yourself- how you don’t hide behind any facade of perfection and while being perfectly honest and open inspire me and others to accept ourselves in our entirety. You are a Femme Vitale!


3 WendyBNo Gravatar December 5, 2011 at 8:11 pm

I like your ‘tude!


4 SACRAMENTONo Gravatar December 5, 2011 at 9:16 pm

Glad to see you back embracing us all.


5 OfeliaNo Gravatar December 6, 2011 at 4:37 am

Thanks for the warm embrace and the powerful self awareness and love!


6 Laura ConnellNo Gravatar December 7, 2011 at 1:30 pm

You are so perfectly named! And what a gift you are to women that you encourage us to embrace all our aspects, even those ones that sometimes seem unlovable. I’m learning that we have to not just tolerate but actually LOVE those parts of ourselves that we thought were unlovable. And then we will be free. Cutie pie!


7 anita riotNo Gravatar December 7, 2011 at 7:57 pm

i love your raunchy stlye, your crazy patterns, its so you and its amazing because its just you! i really get a good vibe from you! :) I embrace what i can, everyday its something different! gotta love a little bit of it all :)


December 8, 2011 at 4:28 am

You’re amazing. Come hang out with me. Let’s cause tons of trouble together.


byanika 9 byanikaNo Gravatar
January 4, 2012 at 12:11 pm

Ohhhhhhhhhhh! Girlfriend. Yes yes yes! I LOVE you. You are my kind of trouble. Will resurface soon honey. Hugs!


10 FashnlvrNo Gravatar
December 8, 2011 at 4:59 am

I just love your eyes. They are mesmerizing. I love your style. I love that you can whip up a dress in the morning and wear it to work or wherever else you may be going. I love that you are proud of you -> all of you. I love your chubby knees :) to wrap it all up: I love YOU!


11 AdrienneNo Gravatar December 9, 2011 at 4:17 am

I love your open, honest, and inspiring posts! It is a challenge to love all the different parts of ourselves, but it is worth the effort :)


December 11, 2011 at 6:44 am

Bits of tude and the best smile in the world you have! A warm embrace, an honest heart, and giver of inspiration and I’ll forever welcome you dear! -xxoo :)


13 KimberleeNo Gravatar
December 11, 2011 at 10:23 pm

Ooh la la! I think every woman should express her feminine side. Femininity is so powerful and beautiful :)


14 JamillahNo Gravatar
December 12, 2011 at 7:58 pm

Oh my freind, we ARE able to be so many things and I think it’s great to love and appreciate both the vulnerable person who needs care and also the woman that can push aside anything in her way. People often describe me as sweet and I completely am but you don’t ever want to tell me I can’t do something ;) .



15 Susan TinerNo Gravatar December 12, 2011 at 9:07 pm

You make a wonderful femme fatale! As for embracing all of the parts of myself? Still working on it.


16 Kirstin MarieNo Gravatar
December 14, 2011 at 2:45 pm

I love how confident you are, and how you throw everything out there. It just makes you that much more amazing. I love reading your posts lately, they really get me to thinking. You are beautiful, lady! xo


17 Best Of Palm BeachNo Gravatar
December 28, 2011 at 2:47 am

It’s always a breath of fresh air reading your posts. Hope you are having a great holiday dear.


18 SophiaNo Gravatar December 29, 2011 at 1:57 pm

You are so beautiful. I am glad to watch your post and share your story, it is great. Yes, should keep confident like you, and wish you have a wonderful new year.


19 Beautifully InvisibleNo Gravatar
December 30, 2011 at 5:30 am

Just dropping in to say love you, thinking about you, and wishing you a lovely holiday and HAPPY HAPPY New Year. 2012 is going to be YOUR year, I can feel it!


20 BellaNo Gravatar
January 4, 2012 at 12:22 am

Sister, as far as I’m concerned, YOU are THE femme fatale of all time! You look smashing in these photos! Happy New Year, love! All the best to you in 2012! Hugs and kisses! :)


21 MeganNo Gravatar January 11, 2012 at 1:04 pm

I’am a self conscious woman.. I’m feel glad to across on your site! Love it. I will take as my basis in facing my consciousness…


22 Pettina26No Gravatar January 31, 2012 at 10:55 am

How i wish i have that kind of confidence, You are the image of 2012 happiness.


23 jean20No Gravatar February 3, 2012 at 3:56 pm

A great confidence can bring to success, So good!


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