The act of transformation.

by byanika on 11/07/2012 · 12 comments

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Hi Sweethearts! 

The fully reckognizing who you are. Who I am. Where I am. How I got here. Where I need to go.

The act of transformation. Of my self.

Do you ever observe your self? I do. All the time. And then I marvel at the act of it, at the being of forces within me, forces that are in motion even when I am not aware. It is like walking through a forest, getting to a clearing in the woods, resting there.

And suddenly, wearing a tea coloured shirt that hangs on my gadoinkadonk feels ok. Two days ago it didn`t. All my admiring of other womens bottoms and shaking of my own has me at the clearing. Has me at peace with it. Feeling happy with my observation of my self.

Has my butt transformed. Because I have transformed how I see it.

The outfit: Black dress, H&M. Shirt, Bik Bok, pursposfully misbuttoned. Scarf, Zara. Chains, Bik Bok. Earrings,  Kapp Ahl. Wegdes, Din Sko. Absent tan, Norwegian summer.

Tell me my darling friends, are you in the business of transforming your self?

Also, I love you so very much. I have missed you greatly, and will visit you all. Forgive me for checking out there for a moment.

I would love to connect with you!

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1 Hannah AlyseNo Gravatar July 12, 2012 at 1:43 am

Lovely thought provoking piece! I get so excited when I change how I see a part of myself into a more positive image. I’m glad you’re writing again :)


2 JenmarieNo Gravatar
July 12, 2012 at 5:14 pm

I’ve missed you too, Anika! *hugs*

That Zara scarf is so pretty on you! I recently had the chance to shop in a Zara store while in Vegas last weekend. SO fun!


3 Casee MarieNo Gravatar July 12, 2012 at 9:49 pm

Sending you the most obnoxiously squeezey hug right now. I needed a dose of inspiration By Anika in my life right now, so thank you for that.

I do observe myself a lot – I reflect on myself, I think, daily. I recently started to find myself gravitating more towards others and the ideas set forth by others, and I’m trying to establish myself again away from all of that. Sometimes you don’t realize just how much of yourself you’ve lost in the process. But I guess finding yourself again is another beautiful adventure? That’s how I’m choosing to look at it! xo


4 JamillahNo Gravatar
July 13, 2012 at 4:17 pm

OH MY GAWSH! Seriously I haven’t been blog reading for so long and I thought to myself if Anika doesn’t have a new post still I’m going to write my dear friend to make sure she’s alive. I’m glad to see you are very much alive and well, although looking quite teenier, my Norwegian Pumpkin.

Yes I am very reflective of the person I am now, a person who has come so far and is still changing and loving every minute of it.


5 OliviaNo Gravatar July 15, 2012 at 4:10 pm

I looovvvee that jacket! It looks awesome on you!


6 MadisonNo Gravatar
July 19, 2012 at 5:30 pm

I’ve missed you and you blog very much! Life has gotten busy, but I’m so happy to finally get around to reading my favourites again. Yes, I often reflect on myself, personal changes, lifestyle, etc. Most recently, I’ve noticed how different my selection of company of friends are. I’ve brought more positive relationships in my life. It’s a funny thing, getting older … you learn to brush much off of your shoulder and move positively forward, at least for me it has become quite easier than when I was younger, and I appreciate everything that has happened, the changes and all! Happy summer to you dear. -xx


7 anita riotNo Gravatar July 30, 2012 at 7:42 pm

you are stunning! i love the green crop jacket with your red hair! it’s simply gorgeous! I love the skirt too! you look as lovely as ever darlin

Im currently hosting a giveaway on my blog would be great if you could check it out :)



8 raquelNo Gravatar
August 25, 2012 at 8:49 pm

you look gorgeous !


9 ElizabethNo Gravatar September 11, 2012 at 12:51 am

You look great! I love the scarf!

BTW; I am hosting a little giveaway on my blog. Stop by!


10 rococoNo Gravatar September 18, 2012 at 11:12 am

Awesome outfit!You look really amazing!
Love your jacket!


11 JTwisdomNo Gravatar
October 14, 2012 at 2:03 am

Good to see you Anika.
Yes, I examine myself to see if I am where I want to be or need to change up some things. You look wonderful and your scarf and outfit is so pretty.


12 markNo Gravatar December 16, 2013 at 3:40 pm

you look beautiful!


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