By Anika

Zen. Ish.

by byanika on 26/12/2012 · 9 comments

in By Anika,self worth

Hi Sweethearts. I always liked feng shui. You know; staying zen, living like a strong reed that bends with the wind and then straightens back up again, allowing the corners in my flat to be uncluttered (don`t know if this has anything to do with zen at all, but it sounds like it, no?) (if […]


Hi Sweethearts!  The fully reckognizing who you are. Who I am. Where I am. How I got here. Where I need to go. The act of transformation. Of my self. Do you ever observe your self? I do. All the time. And then I marvel at the act of it, at the being of forces […]


Picture perfect?

by byanika on 29/04/2012 · 23 comments

in By Anika,dresses,self worth,snake

Hi Sweethearts! See me, all decked out in snake? Curly hair out of control, with that funny-looking smile showing teeth and double chin? Wrinkes from crying and laughing? Soft tummy, ass with angles from here to heaven and totally untoned thighs? Yes, I am confident. Now. Yes, I work at it. Every day. Looking at pictures […]


Hi Sweethearts! I am very grateful to say that a post of mine was included in IFBs links a la mode! I have been doubting my blogging lately, so I really appreciate the encouragement, and also all the support from you, my darling friends. Enjoy these wonderful posts!   Change   Edited by: Sonia of […]


Hi Sweethearts! I always feel the need to mix it up! A single colour is never enough for me. One pattern is unfulfilling. One language is limiting. Too much safety is stifling. You know what I love? Individuality. I love that we can mix the same staples in so many different ways. I love that […]


Hi Sweethearts! You know, I have worked really hard for my body. Do you know how many pints of B&J`s I have worked through to get my ass just right? How many laughs it has taken to get those smiley wrinkles? How much dancing to get my legs curvy enough? This is my body. I`ve […]


Hi Sweethearts! Have you ever sat next to a stranger, suddenly feeling aware of a connection to the the other person? Have you ever been in a room filled with people you know, suddenly feeling disconnected from them? Have you ever sat alone somewhere, feeling deeply connected to your self, to something outside your self? I have. […]


Life is.

by byanika on 20/03/2012 · 15 comments

in By Anika,dresses,self worth

Hi Sweethearts! You know how people often comment about how something is fair or not? Deserved or not? Relating it to being a good person or not? I think we all are worthy. We should all have high expections. We should reject disrespect. We should all know our worth.  We should all only include people […]


Hi Sweethearts! See this jacket? According to the rules for dressing as a curvy woman it is all kinds of wrong. It doesn`t highlight my waist. It doesn`t showcase Thelma and Louise. It does highlight my generous buttocks and hips and legs. Curves and bulk coming together nicely. I felt shy in the jacket at […]


Coming out of the mist.

by byanika on 20/02/2012 · 15 comments

in By Anika,self worth

Hi Sweethearts! How do you know if you are on the right track in your life? My compass is my feelings, my intution. I feel like I am moving towards something. I am close to a break through. I can feel it. Taste it. But not yet see it. It is something where all of […]

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